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Your score of %%YOURSCORE%% on Your Marriage Health Quiz puts you at the top of the class! You basically have a healthy marriage. You know how to give and receive love, feel like you belong, and feel effective in your marriage. Only 10% of married couples achieve this level of intimacy without being taught.
Although there isn’t much you would need to do to improve your marriage you might like doing an Our Marriage Checkup to learn more about each other’s hearts. Use code Betterin23 to get 50% off
Or perhaps you would enjoy going to Puerto Vallarta for a vacation and a tune-up, and enjoy our 8,000sf villa.
Dedicated to Christ-centered, heart-connected, Spirit-filled marriages.
Dr. Pauline Dillard
Counselor/Writer/Business Owner
P.S. I personally answer all my emails. So please send me any questions you may have.
However, if you don’t get a response within 48 hours resend, as I probably didn’t get your email.
PLUS: Even if you don’t need our services right now…Please share our information with anyone you know who could benefit.
Our next Puerto Vallarta Marriage Adventure is November7-14, 2023
Our Next Colorado Rocky Mountains Adventure is September 2-9, 2023
“We both feel that without your wise counsel and the tools we learned which we use most every day (with each other and our 2 young children), our marriage may not have survived the challenges we have faced.” -Marilyn








By doing a Building Together workshop or private intensive (in my Colorado Springs offices or via Zoom) you could accomplish all God wants for your marriage.
Not sure that you need to do a workshop or private intensive? Then sign up for an Our Marriage Checkup and find out more about each other’s hearts and how the tools I have developed can help your marriage be even better! Use code Betterin23 and get 50% off.
Dedicated to Christ-centered, heart-connected, Spirit-filled marriages.
Dr. Pauline Dillard
Counselor/Writer/Business Owner
P.S. I personally answer all my emails. So please send me any questions you may have.
However, if you don’t get a response within 48 hours resend, as I probably didn’t get your email.
PLUS: Even if you are not ready to do a Building Together program…If you know anyone who could benefit from what we offer please share the link to the Marriage Health Quiz with them.
Our next Puerto Vallarta Marriage Adventure is November7-14, 2023
Our Next Colorado Rocky Mountains Adventure is September 2-9, 2023
“We both feel that without your wise counsel and the tools we learned which we use most every day (with each other and our 2 young children), our marriage may not have survived the challenges we have faced.” -Marilyn








You would definitely benefit from a private Building Together marriage intensive (either in my offices in Colorado Springs or via Zoom). By doing this now you can circumvent any problems that may be developing before they become problems.
Nos sure a marriage intensive would benefit you at this time? Consider registering for an Our Marriage Checkup. This way you can fully gauge the health of your marriage, learn about each other’s heart conditions and find out more about how the tools I have developed can benefit your marriage. Use Code Betterin23 and save 50%.
Dedicated to Christ-centered, heart-connected, Spirit-filled marriages.
Dr. Pauline Dillard
Counselor/Writer/Business Owner
I personally answer all my emails. So please send me any questions you may have.
However, if you don’t get a response within 48 hours resend as I probably didn’t get your email.
PLUS: When you are ready…here are other ways I can help your marriage.
Do your intensive in Puerto Vallarta, Mexico or the Colorado Rockies. Everything you would get in a private intensive plus a romantic setting. Learn more here.
Our next Puerto Vallarta Marriage Adventure is November7-14.
Our Next Colorado Rocky Mountains Adventure is September 2-9.
If you know anyone who would benefit from what we offer please feel free to share our information with them.
‘We have been to other marriage counseling, and no one has so fully integrated Christ and The Word into marriage counseling the way Pauline did.” Brenda and Drew








Your score of %%YOURSCORE%% on the Marriage Health Quiz means your marriage is already in danger. You probably don’t really want to get a divorce, but you don’t know what else to do. You feel that you cannot go on being married like this, and you that your marriage may already be headed for life support. A Building Together Private Intensive with me (either in my Colorado Springs offices or via Zoom) is highly recommended.
You know you need to do this, but you might still be nervous and uncertain about making the financial and time commitment. Then register for an Our Marriage Checkup now. This meeting with me will show you how you are reacting to each other out of pain, what your pain buttons are, and how you get stuck in the Crazy Cycle. I will then explain what will happen in your private intensive and how the tools I have developed can help you to flip your marriage onto a Christ-centered, heart-connected, Spirit-filled marriage adventure.
Dedicated to Christ-centered, heart-connected, Spirit-filled marriages.
Dr. Pauline Dillard
Counselor/Writer/Business Owner
I personally answer all my emails. So please send me any questions you may have.
However, if you don’t get a response within 48 hours resend, as I probably didn’t get your email.
PLUS: Whenever you're ready... here are other ways can take your private intensive and grow YOUR marriage.
Do your intensive in Puerto Vallarta, Mexico or the Colorado Rockies. Everything you would get in a private intensive plus a romantic setting.
Our next Puerto Vallarta Marriage Adventure is November7-14, 2023
Our Next Colorado Rocky Mountains Adventure is September 2-9, 2023
If you know anyone who would benefit from what we offer please feel free to share our information with them.
‘We have been to other marriage counseling, and no one has so fully integrated Christ and The Word into marriage counseling the way Pauline did.” Brenda and Drew








Your score of %%YOURSCORE%% on the Marriage Health Quiz means you have already given up. Your marriage is in the ICU, and you’re wondering if you shouldn’t just pull the plug. You are convinced there is no way to fix this mess except to get a divorce. You are standing on the steps of divorce court, papers in hand, strengthening yourself to just go through with it.
Yet… you wonder if there might not be one more thing you haven’t tried yet.
A Building Together Private Intensive with me is what you have not tried yet. I fully believe that if this time learning how to truly forgive and care for each other’s hearts doesn’t flip your marriage then nothing will. But only if both of you commit to doing everything you learn to do.
In the end, it is cheaper than a divorce: mentally, emotionally, spiritually, and financially for everyone involved.
I do not recommend the workshop if this is where your marriage is. It needs intensive care that only a private intensive care unit can give it. I also believe you should do everything you can to do this in person with me at my offices in Colorado Springs, in Puerto Vallarta, Mexico, or in the Colorado Rocky Mountains.
Dedicated to Christ-centered, heart-connected, Spirit-filled marriages.
Dr. Pauline Dillard
Counselor/Writer/Business Owner
P.S. I personally answer all my emails. So please send me any questions you may have.
However, if you don’t get a response within 48 hours resend, as I probably didn’t get your email.
Our next Puerto Vallarta Marriage Adventure is November7-14, 2023
Our Next Colorado Rocky Mountains Adventure is September 2-9, 2023
Plus: If you know anyone who would benefit from what we offer please feel free to share our information with them.
‘We have been to other marriage counseling, and no one has so fully integrated Christ and The Word into marriage counseling the way Pauline did.” -Brenda and Drew







Our Marriage Checkup
Do you know why your marriage is stuck? Do you know why you may feel there is just something missing? Learn what is happening in each other’s hearts before investing time and money in a marriage intensive or workshop.
Building Together Private Marriage Intensive
Just you and Dr. Pauline digging deep into pain issues and developing each others’ heart language. You will then be able to relate to each other at a deep heart level and connect to care emotionally and spiritually.
Building Together Workshops
Don’t think you can afford a private intensive, but want to get started building a Christ-centered, heart-connecting, Spirit-filled marriage? Look into taking a small group Building Together workshop.
Destination Puerto Vallarta
Want a romantic vacation and a new romantic marriage all rolled into one? Then this destination private intensive is for you! Get everything you would with a private intensive in top class accomodations.
Destination Rocky Mountain
Want a Rocky Mountain and adventure and go home with a new marriage too? Then this destination marriage intensive is for you! Get everything you would with a private intensive in the beautful Colorado Rocky Mountains.
Want to work together in the privacy of your own home? This workbook can guide your time together. It contains everything you would get in a private marriage intensive, in a self-guided workbook format. If you find you need more help just let me know.
